T.H.I.N.K.

Someone blessed me with this by email...so I decided to be a blessing too.

Alan Redpath once formed a "mutual encouragement" fellowship at a time of stress in one of his pastorates. The members subscribed to a simple formula applied before speaking of any person or subject that was perhaps controversial.

T - Is it True?

H - Is it Helpful?

I - Is it Inspiring?

N - Is it Necessary?

K - Is it Kind?

Paul wrote, "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable - if anything is excellent or praiseworthy - think about such things."  (Philippians 4:8 - NIV)

I like this rendition: And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.  (Philippians 4:8 - NLT).

In trying to be a virtuous woman and walk worthy of my calling as a Christian woman, wife, mother & Mrs. Pastor, I hold this other verse close to heart:
"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness.

(Proverbs 31:26 - NLT).

Thinking before speaking takes conscious effort. Speaking kindly is another kettle of fish. I never cease praying that whenever I open my mouth to speak that there is kindness in my words whether it be in the form of advice or admonition. And now I pray: May this acronym guide our thinking and speaking...Amen.