Ways to show your church you love them* (2)

This is a continuation from last week's post. As usual, my comments will be in purple font.

10. Keep confidential matters confidential.
Mrs. Pastor: This is so true. Remember when I asked "Basket or Bucket?"** The fact that someone shared something with you doesn't mean you need to share it with anyone else (except your husband). For me the only exception is when it borders on Tip 12 below. We can all see smell and taste gossip when we hear it...yes all our senses pick up on it. However, in such cases ask God for wisdom on how to handle them.
11. You can’t do all things for all people, but be careful not to just do some things for some people.
12. Do not participate in gossip.
13. Respect your husband as the head of your family and the leader of your church.
Mrs. Pastor: At home and in church.
14. Spare your friends in the church the details of your marriage, find other women to share with who are not in your church.
15. Be real about your life, family, and weaknesses. Mrs. Pastor: This is so true. We must be real and relatable. Follow me on https://www.facebook.com/DearMrsPastor
16. Keep your home tidy (I’m not saying immaculate) for visitors. Mrs. Pastor: But first for your family - so it's obvious they are more important to you than visitors.

We'll continue next week....

References:
*http://www.sandrapeoples.com/pastors-wives-show-your-church-you-love-them/
** http://mrs-pastor-and-pastor-mrs.blogspot.ca/2014/02/basket-or-bucket.html